To Moxie's last question which I believe is in the back of the minds of many GGs who are not fully, or mostly supportive of their SOs I think
I'm reading SOME of the posts that "protest too much", that are in a state of denial and don't realize it. How can a CD, or anyone for that matter, be able to measure whether their love, devotion and attention are less so or the same when part of their feelings and activities (sexual or daily living) is shared by their inner desires to cross dress for short or longer periods of time? Every individual has only so much to
give to another in love, attention and time based on their job requirements, their time at home, size of their family and so on. With that said,
overtime many in our community become worndown by the minimal support of their SO and some if not all interest in continuing to share their lives with another eats away their subconscious and denial of their developing feelings of being unloved or less loved creeps in.
To end what has become too long a post --- Yes, there are many CDs who do lose some or all interest under these circumstances and is inevitable for them. Are there exceptions? Of course.
I don't intend these comments to leave Moxie sitting on the fence but that's what makes living so complicated (and interesting).
Julie