That is ok. I find out a lot about my self when I read thing people have shared. I know that is weird but true. Sometimes I might not say something then along comes someone else and they type out what I was thinking about or they say something and makes things clearer in my head.
Hi Ryan!
Happy New Year!
Makes complete sense! It always seemed to me that the upholstery (the lumps, bumps, and caverns in the covering) should have nothing to do with love of the spirit. Why do we first decide if we like the upholstery and only then if we love the person? Isn't that what we are really doing when we declare that we love only women or love only men?
Hugs,
Persephone.
"If you are living the life you want to live you've successfully transitioned to being the person you want to be." - Eryn.
"If you truly care about me you should damn well want for me what I want for myself" - Michael Westen (Burn Notice)
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This is the first time I have EVEN VISITED this section, let alone post.
I was encouraged to look at others views here after reading about MtoF transsexuals wanting an exclusive forum.
I thought I had better broaden my horizons or at least spread my version of graffiti over some different walls.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
There are more MtF's than FtM's. IMHO i think it is like 5 to 1 ratio of MtF to FtM. There is more info of MtF's out on the web and other places to. But in saying that we are both the same side of the coin. We both do not like are bodies and want to change them.
It's sort of sad that the threads have so many views but just a few comments
I've been in other foruns about music, and I know that it's common to have a lot of "ghost members", but I feel that there's a lot here maybe they are all shy... Or from other sections (and shy?)...
Yes it is, but only a small fraction of the MtF CD members here will ever post anything. Just being an actual member here is a huge step for them. It is beyond frightening to admit that you have ANY feminine tendencies much less like to wear makeup and be called Wanda. When I was a kid, just being a fan of Culture Club's music would get you branded as "gay". A good percentage of MtF CD's are not exactly okay with it. Thankfully, the next generation will have it much easier.
The earth is the mother of all people and all people should have equal rights upon it.
Chief Joseph
Nez Perce
“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
Thank you. I try to make it safe place to be for every one. We use to have A lot of guys here but a lot of them have moved on or are busy with getting there life in order. I miss them but live comes first the forum will be here when they come back. When they do come back they have lots to share.