I'm a pushover for being a damsel in distress. Whether its tied to a chair, or simply stuck en femme, a mile or so from any possibility of privacy, unable to take off my heels, (which are killing me), and navigating a bustling public place. The idea of having no choice but to present as fully female is intoxicating. The next best thing is inflicting that helplessness on my SO. I think I find her predicament almost as exciting as if it were me. We have tried some light BD, but I felt she never was in to it. And since she's not that much into my dressing, my ultimate fantasy of having her dominate Marina, or tie Marina up and leave her helpless for a few hours, seems a non-starter.
But, to my surprise, she seems to like the Fifty Shades of Gray book. NOt that she's finished the 3, but she got the first book from her sister as a present, and she didn't dismiss it. I think she's intrigued about it, and although she won't probably be open about it, I'm pretty sure she's read it, or parts of it. First, I'm hoping it might open her mind to the BD aspect, and 'legitimize' light bondage in her eyes, but more important, I'm hoping it might soften her ideas towards other peccadilloes, like dressing (which at this point is still DADT). Any of you gals had your SO's show a little less 'restraint' about 'restraint'?