I was thinking about this just this morning.
My last Lady broke up with me because I have to be Amy and not the man she wanted me to be or thought I should be. She says she would be embarrassed to be seen with me as Amy. I know the term is used for a nice looking girl being a girlfriend of a guy, but it seems to me that males are more Arm Candy to females.
If girls want a man to be a man, are males really only Arm Candy to them. That way a girl does not look gay, if she has a man, But, if her male dresses as a female, then she doesn't have someone to show off, but rather someone to be embarrassed about.
In this instance I am not Arm Candy, rather an embarrassment, to my last Lady anyway.