Sorry for my soapbox rant. You can ignore me….
My gawd, I miss sex. My wife doesn't want it hardly at all. Being in our 60's doesn't help; you know the LowT syndrome and I'm sure she has her hormone issues as well. Plus the old plumbing doesn't work as well as it used to. My wife tolerates me dressing, but has told me that in fact it turns her off.
But just like jessicaswife asked in her recent post, stress causes me to want to dress more. And no sex does cause some stress. Sex is a great stress reliever. I'm sure that my dressing is at least part of the reason for my sexless marriage. I have to take matters into my own hands these days more and more. But it sure isn't the same as with a warm and affectionate partner.
I've even had thoughts of finding someone on the side; I'd even entertain the idea of another guy. There are certain fantasies, i.e. itches that I'd like to scratch. But that has stress inducers as well.
I hate getting old.
