Results 1 to 10 of 10

Thread: Flying Home for Christmas

  1. #1
    Maturing Member JoAnnDallas's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2005
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    3,670

    Flying Home for Christmas

    I left on Dec 22, 2012 and flew back to Dallas, TX to meet the wife and have Christmas with our son. I did something really different. I flew as a female. This was the first time I have ever done this and it was a gas. I did have a little problem going thru the first stage of TSA where they check your ID and ticket. The TSA agent was having a problem with my looks and my picture on my DL. I smiled and quietly suggested he call his supervisor over. He did and showed his supervisor my ID. The supervisor looked at my DL and then at me. All of a sudden he said, “Are you a..” and I quickly answered, “Yes”. He then pulled the agent away from the post and and quietly informed him of the situation. He then handed my ID and ticket back to me and said, “Thank you Mam”. I then did the next stuff. Taking my boots off, coat off, put everything on the conveyer and walk into the scanner. I exit the scanner and they want to do a pat down. I said, “OK” and this nice female TSA agent did the pat down. As I turned around I could see the scanner screen and it showed two big yellow objects at chest height. I chuckled that they were where my forms were. After the pat down, I was cleared. I got my stuff, moved out of the way, put my boots on, my coat, grabbed my carry on and continued to the gate. All in all, really no problem at all. I also traveled back to DC as a female. I had the same problems coming back. Same problem with my looks and my ID and again I tripped the scanner but this time it was because my top has metal threads. The scanners don't like metal threads in garments. LOL So if your out to the public and plan on traveling by air as a female, it is really a no-brainer. Just be aware that not all agents has had experience with TG people, but nothing that will prevent you from traveling as a female. The only reason I asked for the supervisor was to help educate the agent that was checking tickets and ID. If your day-to-day looks has really changed compare to your picture on you DL, then it may be time to see about getting a new one. Back in Texas, you can get both a DL and a State ID card. Many girls will get a State ID card with their female picture on it and use it when they travel. I never got one because until I came to DC I wore a wig. When I got here to DC, I started letting my hair grow out and recently got it fem styled, so my looks and my Texas DL are at odds. I don't plan on changing my DL because at present my perm residence is still Dallas, TX. Once the house sells and wife and cats move here then I will get a new VA DL and my picture will then match my looks.

  2. #2
    Silver Member Annaliese's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Location
    In Cedar City Utah
    Posts
    2,169
    Great story, and some good advice

  3. #3
    Member anastasiafantasia's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Swingin' London, United Kingdom
    Posts
    161
    Congrats.Sounds like a rewarding, fun experience even with the few inconveniences and well done on educating the officer.

  4. #4
    Member LeannL's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2005
    Location
    Mostly Connecticut
    Posts
    561
    Congrats Joann on joining the club. I have only had one TSA agent among dozens not know what to do with the DL looking male and me not. On my last trip, the ticket agent responded to my "I'm transgendered" comment with "Not a big deal."

    Enjoy your next trip.

    Leann
    Leann

    Enjoy who you are but stay safe.

  5. #5
    Platinum Member Beverley Sims's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Lowestoft UK. Beverley was here.
    Posts
    30,955
    I don't fly much internally but I prefer not to push buttons traveling internationally.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

  6. #6
    Claire Claire Cook's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2008
    Location
    E-cent. FL / Arlington VA
    Posts
    2,177
    JoAnn,

    Thanks for posting this. I had a similar experience with a TSA agent who apparently was not enlightened about TG people and her supervisor set her straight. I once asked a TSA agent about this and he said his training included gender sensitivity. I wanted to get a FLA ID with my femme photo, but now the state doesn't issue second ID's. I use my passport and other than the incident I described, haven't had a problem.

    So ... the more we fly pretty, the more they will know us!
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] Proud member of the Lacey Leigh Fan Club

  7. #7
    Junior Member GondorRachel's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    98
    Just curious, flying out of Dulles or Reagan? I will be flying pretty out of Reagan in a bit over a month.

  8. #8
    Claire Claire Cook's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2008
    Location
    E-cent. FL / Arlington VA
    Posts
    2,177
    Gondor,

    I've flown pretty out of DCA several times with no issues. I remember several years ago I was flying "drab" out of National and a person of ambiguous gender was stopped by TSA. Prior to a patdown, s/he was asked "Would you rather be checked by a male or female agent?" I thought that was very considerate.

    Enjoy your trip!
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] Proud member of the Lacey Leigh Fan Club

  9. #9
    Senior Junior Member Lisa Renee's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Location
    Salt Lake City
    Posts
    98
    I noticed on the TSA site that there is now a listing for transgendered. It pretty much explains what we would go through if flying pretty
    Lisa Renee

  10. #10
    Maturing Member JoAnnDallas's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2005
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    3,670
    Quote Originally Posted by GondorRachel View Post
    Just curious, flying out of Dulles or Reagan? I will be flying pretty out of Reagan in a bit over a month.
    I flew out of Reagon.

    Hugs,

    JoAnn

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State