I returned from a trip last night to find that my wife had rearranged our closet. Prior, my girl things were on one rack, my guy things on another and her's on everything else. Last night I walk in and see that OUR clothes are arranged by dresses, skirts, tops, everything intermingled.
I told her that it was more likely I would borrow more of her things (those I can actually fit in to) and she said great. From her perspective, she widened her wardrobe a bit.
Its funny how such a simple change really had some impact on me. While was totally open about my crossdressing before, there was mine and hers (which I borrowed with permission whenever I wanted) but now it's "ours." I like that.