I was at my local mall today just walking for exercise, trying to keep my girlish figure, when out of the corner of my eye I see one of our kind, a CDer!!! She was dressed very nice and most people wouldn't give her a second glance as not being a woman but I could tell she was one of us. I was so excited for some strange reason, maybe because I feel its like a secret society with limited members, I don't know. Anyway, I'm in total guy mode as I always am in public, baggy jeans, t shirt and sporting a beard, no signs of femme unless I take off my shoes and socks and show everyone my pink toe nails. So I follow her for a while and I want to just say something like 'I'm part of the gang too, its great to see you out here'. I ride Harley's and when you pass another biker on the road you always give them a wave because they are part of the club, that's how I felt when I saw her at the mall today, I just wanted to give her a wave but couldn't cause I'm affraid to wear my true 'secret society' colors in public