One of the hardest parts of coming out has been, that I lost my sense of how to flirt, I just didn't have a template for what femme to femme flirting looked like (I still feel mostly attracted to women). Recently I saw a little lesbian flirting and kissing on a TV show (Degrassi, which is a teen show, but realistic and well done), and seeing that image really helped my brain understand what fem to fem flirting could look and feel like for me.