If anyone has not read any of my post in the past I am a construction worker and I am not the sharpest tool in the shed but I love working with my hands.(and always being careful not to chip a nail). At night and weekends sometimes I will help out family and friends with whatever household problems they may have. Almost every time I do a job for someone they always say to me why I never opened a company and did this for a living. When I told my wife this she believes it has to do a little with the dressing, that if I spend as much time following the stock market as much as thinking about the dressing we would be very rich today. She said when she meet me she noticed a low self-esteem and understood why after I told her about the dressing and the years of hiding and thinking something was wrong with me and going threw this on my own. She then noticed that after I told her about it that she seen my confidence build and the only thing that is holding me back now is the thought of being caught. Her biggest fear is that I take these little chances, that how much I love the feeling of the sun on my pantyhose and feeling of the wind when wearing a dress and those feeling are the one that someone is going to get that on a phone camera and I am going to find myself on facebook. That is my biggest fear and I then asked her that when I am dressed what does she think when seeing her husband dress like a women or when we are away and I sleep wearing slips and pantyhose. She said it never bothered her and after 25 years of marriage she's comfortable with it, but believes that maybe without the dressing I would be more confident and would put more thought to other things, but calls it a blessing and a gift and for me to enjoy it. She then asked me why not ask your friends on your forum if there are any of them self-employed or presidents of companies or if they believe that the dressing has held them back? Ok so that question is from my wife.