For those of you who haven't become acquainted with me until recently, I have severe body dysmorphic disorder (along with severe OCD, so it isn't surprising). Upon losing a great deal of weight, I was content with my appearance, and started to cross dress again with greater frequency. However, upon joining the forum, my issues have returned, as I constantly find myself comparing my somewhat imperfect, mildly plus-size figure with some of the svelter, naturally ectomorphic figures of some of my fellow users -- and constantly criticizing myself. I know that not everyone here is svelte, and naturally ectomorphic, and that many of those who are not svelte and naturally ectomorphic still manage to present a highly feminine aesthetic, but . . . I am personally convinced that I, and I alone, must be absolutely perfect in order to appear feminine or to achieve even marginal passability -- so, of all sisters larger than I, I ask patience and an avoidance of taking offense.
I only have one question --
How can I be more reasonable, more accepting, and quit hating myself? That is . . What do you do when you struggle with similar issues?
I thought I had been able to overcome this issue, but I apparently have not. I'm seeking advice to avoid going crazy again -.-