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    Do straight crossdressers like BBWs and if so does anyone know why?

    Im on flickr ,and I see that most straight CDs have pics of bigger women on their favorites.I myself like a woman with meat on her bones ,so I thought it might be a trend.
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    This bisexual crossdressers likes thinner ladies, but my current preference are well bodied males or alluring CD's. Alluring is in the eye of the beholder.
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    I thought the mods would pick up on trolls like this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovingkindness View Post
    I thought the mods would pick up on trolls like this.
    What may be interpreted as a troll to one person may be interpreted by another as a fascinating question.

    I don't think that CDers are any different from the general population in their tastes.

    No one can match the emaciated and photoshopped standard of beauty in today's fashion media so the majority of people would have characteristics of BBW.
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    Because they like their Big Beautiful Wardrobe?

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    To me it seems like men who are into BBW also have a thing for TG women.
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    No. My GF considers herself, ahem...."Streamlined"

    While I'm not locked into a particular body type, ( personality and intelligence more important ) she does have the kind of slim, fit look that i gravitate to.
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    I'm err... Heavily into big girls. Not sure if it's in any way connected to my dressing up, though!

    All the experiences I've had in bed with big girls have been mind blowing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by paula_16 View Post
    Because they like their Big Beautiful Wardrobe?
    Exactly.... I always chose my girlfriends based on their dress size! lol. lucky for me im not that big so neither were my girlfriends......
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chazity View Post
    Im on flickr ,and I see that most straight CDs have pics of bigger women on their favorites.
    No, "most" cross dressers do not. The very limited sample size to which you refer, may. I see no relevance to your statement and a cross dressing site.

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    I don't know why this question would be considered trolling.

    I can't speak for others' preferences, but I know I prefer large women.

    Many TVs tend to be submissive, and being with a large/overpowering woman may be an extension of that.

    Women who are very large tend to have been abused by society (pretty brutally in some cases) and tend to be more sympathetic toward those who, not unlike themselves, look different and otherwise fall outside of what mainstream society thinks is acceptable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vickie_CDTV View Post
    ...Women who are very large tend to have been abused by society (pretty brutally in some cases) and tend to be more sympathetic toward those who, not unlike themselves, look different and otherwise fall outside of what mainstream society thinks is acceptable...
    There is a lot of truth to what you say, Vicki. From personal experience, I can vouch for the fact that tall (6' +) and BBW-type GG's seem to be particularly CD-friendly and supportive. Must be that kinship they feel for us for the reasons you have already stated...

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    I like BBW women. Do I think it has to do something with my crossdressing ? - No, I don't think so. But as others said I like all women. Every woman can be attractive with something in her.

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    It's starting to get a little crazy on here and this subject. So are we now asking(yes we are asking), that do straight cross dressers like BBW? Of course that is the question. Why does it have to be straight cross dresser in the question? Could it have not been asked why do cross dressers like BBW? I haven't seen this to be the case at all. Couldn't we ask, why do men like BBW? Or why do straight men(non cd), like BBW? Why is the question so loaded as though it is already established that "straight" cross dressers like BBW? Can not a bi CD like BBW. Can straight CD's not like BBW? Can bi men like BBW?
    Well I'm married now, but I like BBW or just BW. But men lose here. It's like this, if a women has a lot of extra pounds, she can claim the title of BBW, but if a man is quite large, can he call himself and would all of society call him a BBM?? Heck no, he is just called a big fat man. It's never been a fair world.
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    Ok I have to post. Not trying to step on any toes so bear with me please. I used to be anorexic and now am at the opposite end...as a BBW. I am accepting and in love with my SO. It has nothing to do with being BBW since I have experienced both sides of the weight issue. I was taught to be accepting of others. Also being in the dance world I saw many different types of people. I feel if you can accept yourself and be happy in your own skin it helps you be more accepting of others and maybe BBW are just more confident people.
    So I guess my point is that being a CD or BBW it is all about accepting those around you and not putting labels on.
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    I don't think it is a rule of thumb.

    I personally do have a liking for larger women and I have noticed that in the majority, larger seem to be more "Girlie Girls" possibly to offset their larger size issues in society.

    Most of the larger women that I am friends with, I have met or work with on a regular basis are always dressed very well, makeup and nails done where smaller ladies do not.

    This could be just the way I view people and what I am attracted to and notice.

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    I would say that straight crossdressers are no different than other men, they like women who like them.

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    Ok, look, the OP isn't off in one thing: Kink. As fetishistic crossdressing is a 'kink', so are things like people being into leather, foot fetishes, etc. Basically, their sexuality is a bit more 'amped up' than most. And, a BBW fetish is another thing in someone who has an 'amped up' sexuality, just like people being into any other crazy thing imaginable. I don't judge, but it's not like the OP is off. If more amped up people have a higher chance to be crossdressers, then they have a higher chance to also be into BBW things. Good for them. Everyone deserves to be loved, so it's a win all-around, IMO...

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    My preference for women is a woman that can fit into my clothes, size 4 to 8. So Ideally she will be withing 2 inches of 5' 4" tall and a size 6, which was exactly Britney Spears when she was young and fit.

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    Back on subject. Otherwise this thread is history.
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    Folks, I had to clean up several OT posts in this thread. I'll remind everyone that this thread is about CDers' possible affinity for BBW (Big Beautiful Women). Stick to that topic, please.

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    I don't know about anybody else but I think the appeal that BBWs have on cross-dressers might be its achievability. I noticed this myself when I came across the video on YouTube featuring "Legeffects". An ingenious homemade hip butt and leg padding that gave the male frame a very realistic looking BBW shell. A few years ago I made a pair myself and the change in my appearance was phenomenal. Instead of trying in vain to look like a bean pole supermodel like it now achieve a very Rubenesque appearance. After this I began to appreciate more the plus size model community.

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    Anyone really interested in exclusively enjoying the company of BBW may want to vacation in Samoa. I may be accused off presenting sterotypes, but, some of the responses really seem to promote sterotypical thoughts. When I stand behind a young woman in the store with a BMI of over forty buying a liter of pop and two candy bars, I do not see BBW. I see physical and mental health issues.

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    well i like all women, whatever be their size, shape,etnicity etc. i love women and love being like them too

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