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    Pickup while dressed

    Recently I read some discussion in the TS forum about how living as a gender variant person might be an option for some people rather than transition.

    With that in mind, one thing I wondered was has anyone picked up women while dressed? And I don't mean these *oh I totally could have if I wanted to* things. I'd include partially dressed here as long as it was obvious.

    It has to have translated into some sort of either short term ONS or longer sexual relationship.

    Preferably a relatively recent experience, not oh I did such-and-such in the paleolithic era...

    How did it go?
    Last edited by max; 02-02-2013 at 05:04 PM.
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    I know that there are some members who met their SOs while dressed, so I guess there is hope.

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    I've never really been harassed. I'll just say im not interested. I did have one instance where I had to leave the club becuase he just kept persisting. It wasn't scary though, just annoying.

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    That situation would be a new experience for me.
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    When I met my wife I was dressed, it was at a gay club. We ended up dating several times before she met my male side. We have now been together for seven year and love each other more than ever. I believe there is always hope.
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    Before anyone else responds read the OP. Max wants to hear from you IF you have picked up a woman while dressed. Do not post things like "I never happened to me" or "I wish it would" Posts like that will be removed

    Quote Originally Posted by max View Post

    With that in mind, one thing I wondered was has anyone picked up women while dressed? And I don't mean these *oh I totally could have if I wanted to* things. I'd include partially dressed here as long as it was obvious.

    It has to have translated into some sort of either short term ONS or longer sexual relationship.

    Preferably a relatively recent experience, not oh I did such-and-such in the paleolithic era...

    How did it go?
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    Senior Member Barbra P's Avatar
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    Does this count? I was en femme at a Halloween party, Wig, makeup, blouse, skirt, bra, pantyhose, heels, nail polish, and earrings and I met a woman. We started dating and she became my wife a few years later.
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    Good idea to narrow it down Lori.

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    i've actually had more luck getting women while dressed than in guy mode. my last two relationships started with me in a skirt or dress, so yes there is definitely hope. sometimes the crossdressing actually helps
    skirts rule pants drool!!

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    I've met two of my long term girlfriends whilst dressed, and whilst nothing happened on those initial meetings, we did get together soon afterwards.

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    I don't know if it counts, but I told my GF when she was just a friend and co-worker. When we did hook up, i was wearing panties under, and she didn't bat an eye. Shortly after that, when staying round her place, i took over a skirt and stockings and put them on. No problem. She doesn't care what i wear, though she will occasionally slide her hand playfully up my skirt! I've walked around the neighborhood with her in a skirt as well.
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    I asked my wife to marry me, dressed in a gay club. (She said yes!) Now she does my makeup when we go out.

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