This is a quote from one of your recent posts:
Are you transsexual like Lana? If you have a sense of impending doom about your wife's potential acceptance reversal, it may be that you sense the crossdressing is much deeper than you have told her. And at a subconscious level, you know that your marriage might possibly be compromised in the future? Do you think that you will eventually come to terms with needing to live as a woman like Lana?
I would pay attention to your inner voices and become rigorously honest with yourself, so that you can in turn be honest with your wife. The sooner the better, for both your sakes.