I'm relatively new to being out to my wife, and to this forum, too, and I've read numerous times in brief comments here and there that many who have successfully come out to their wives were met initially by a period of acceptance, but unfortunately this acceptance evolved into a state of DADT or outright rejection.
I feel very happy right now with my wife and my outing to her last December, but I detect a low-level near-constant worry in the back of my mind that she'll change. I'm doing a lot of reading and study of trans* books about this out there on the market, but would really appreciate hearing from those of us who have experienced this change from "ok" to "not OK" first hand. Was this change evidence of you both stepping through the "stages of grieving," and you have a good future together, or is it stuck at the "not OK" stage?
Thank you for thinking this over and commenting, Elfin