Well, after a year or so as member of our community, I finally met a fellow member. We've agreed to respect each others' privacy so, I will refrain from mentioning her name. But, I am here to tell everyone, we had a blast spending an evening dressing for each other and ourselves.
Now, we took things slowly, we met here, exchanged a few private messages, then private emails, a few phone calls, a public meeting at a diner, and then we set a date to meet at my place. In all, it took about six months.
We both were so eager to talk to someone who could 'understands' each others' point of view, desires, and pleasures. I can't tell you and I know many of you know just how wonderful it feels just verbalize your thoughts without reservations. To actually say the words, "Oh I love that blouse" or " I just love pink" etc. It was so cathartic.
I never felt so at ease with another man in my entire life. Even when I've been with other gay men (you may recall, I am gay, she is not) there's always been a piece of me I've always withheld from them. A piece of me that just wants to scream, "FABULOUS!?
We are both still in our infancy in our journey, and we both talk about how much we wonder where it will lead and those discussion are just so good to have with someone how can relate to your feelings. But we had so much fun, we really didn't care if neither of us had a wig or makeup. We both agree, in time, those things will come.
So, the journey continues and now, I feel I've taken a huge step forward.
Wanted to share.
Cassie
