Hi... this is aimed mostly at those like me who experience CD as a sexual/fetish thing, rather than a more personal need. Have you ever tried dressing up with someone else? I am longing to try this, but haven't yet met the right guy. Tell me your experiences!
My first time with another male. We were both crossdressed and we both had a our great "first times" together.
It was a total sexual thing for both of us. We met online and found that we lived within a few hours of each other. Chatted for several weeks,exchanged some pics,thoughts n desires. Got to know each other as much as possible via the internet (which I was very skeptical of...not actually meeting the person "in person").
Never talked on the phone and "Brandy" never wanted to. Which I later found out,that she didn't want her "male" voice to ruin anything. Understood. She was coming through a city close to me and she got a room and invited me to stop in for a "play date". I was soooo excited. A few hours before,I took good care to shave 100%. Packed my lingerie into my back pack and away I went.
Brandy texted me the hotel and room info. I stopped and got some beer,to help de-edge us. When I knocked on her room door,she was as her male self. Which I didnt think anything of. We had a few drinks,chatted for about 30 minutes and both decided to get changed. Their were two queens beds in the room and the one she had various different lingerie sets layed out. She asked me to choose one. I picked out,for her to wear,a cute black bordered with hot pink set. She went to the bathroom to get dressed and I took advantage of the full size mirror and vanity in the room. My lingerie was all black. Ok,Im a rebel.
Interjection>>> Brandy: 5'9",160lbs,thin/fit build(yay me)
Me: 5'8",150lbs,thin/fit build,
I wore a black baby doll,with garter and thigh high stockings. No panties. Platform,open toe heels. I have my own natural hair and did up a little "I Dream Of Jeanie" number. I then sat there doing my eyes and lipsticks.
When Brandy came out of bathroom dressed in heels and lingerie,she wore a short blonde wig. Think,Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman,when she was a hooker in the beginning...with a short blonde wig.
Brandy looked just yummy. She strutted over to the love seat and sat down. I approached her and she noticed I wasnt wearing panties.
I stood in front of her and told her coyly that,panties are for sissies.
I leaned into her and as I asked her "do you kiss"? She replied by slowly leaning up,into me slipping her tongue onto mine.
She then stood up,took her panties off and it was game on from there on!
Sorry....not able to go any further than that publicly. For another 8 hrs we enjoyed every aspect of our intentions and we both rocked each other. She looked great. I looked great. For both of us it was a great first time. Ive never got together with her again after that night nor any other crossdresser (due to I cant find another willing playmate in my area).
I remember it as it was yesterday. Probably one of the best days of my life actually!
Last edited by Lorileah; 03-03-2013 at 02:28 PM. Reason: Some things are not allowed please read the rules
"Honey, I’m still all man. I’m just a man with decoration."
--Tommy Wilkins
Had the experience once (long ago) and it wasn't very good. I had a beard at the time and neither one of us were fem enough to come close any fantasies. My guess is this thread will be deleted!
Mikaylagirl, being this good why didn't you make it a regular get together, especially if you couldn't find another???????????
I for one hope this thread doesn't get deleted. I think Mikayla did a wonderful job of sharing the experience without getting into explicit detail. Thanks, Mikayla!
I find this topic very interesting and it appears on this board from time to time. The only way I could ever be with a guy is with another crossdresser. I find other CD's to be very alluring. Anyone that can soften their masculine side to the extent of wearing women's clothes is a kindred spirit that interests me.
I too would love to experience a shared girly experience. Find the thought very exciting to be honest x
Great post, Mykayla!
I think a lot of sex is performed by camming now. It's completely safe and u can sign off any time! I've experimented with camming as Sherry with web users who claimed to be GG's.
Last edited by Lorileah; 03-03-2013 at 02:30 PM. Reason: removed references to edited parts of the post.
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
I too would love to have this experience. Very hard to find the right person.
Note: Potentially this thread can go way off the rails. It already has violated some rules that has been edited. This is NOT a porn site. This is NOT Penthouse forum. Details about sexual encounters will be deleted and this will be closed if it goes there.
Really people, ya all read the rules.
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I've done quite a bit of camming with other CD's but that's as far as it's gone for me. I'd be very concerned that the illusion would completely break down in real life.
"We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think." - The Buddha
I have limited my CD activities to only my wife. I have thought about others and we have talked about who we might tell the secret to, but we haven't told anyone else yet. Almost all of our friends have children who know our children, so a secret wouldn't stay so for long. Steph.
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I haven't but it is something that has always interested me. A helping hand to do make-up or say how the outfit looks would be nice.
I too would like to meet someone on here or somewhere who likes to crossdress snd go out to a club or something but havent met anyone dont know if I ever will either
You are one lucky SOB! YOU ROCK! so when are you coming to the southern NH area?
Last edited by nhlighthouse; 03-03-2013 at 10:32 PM.
I doubt I make it there anytime soon when r u coming down here cuz I dont yravel much
I would love to meet other CD's and enjoy their company for coffee and "gossip". But I wouldn't want to meet for sexual purposes. I would love to just spend the day with girlfriends. Im a virgin when it comes to being with another man and though sometimes I do fantasize being with a another CD or transexual woman I don't want to really experience it. I want to remain a virgin
A little clarification from the OP would be helpful. It wasn't clear if the OP wanted to meet for sexual purposes, or if the dressing itself was a sexual/fetish thing, and just wanted to meet like-minded CDers, as MysticLady said, for coffee and companionship.Originally Posted by MysticLady
There is a sexual/fetish aspect to my dressing, and I would love to meet LIKE-MINDED CDers for companionship and conversation, but without any sexual activities. There would be a purpose to this kind of meeting which would not be possible to achieve with a CDer with a strong internal feminine identity and wanting to be a girl while denying any sexual component to dressing.
Hmmm! I thought I replied to this thread but maybe not.
It is interesting to cd with another as you get to see what they wear and experience.
I have always had a bevvy of girls to dress me and they had a wide variety of suitable clothing to throw on me at any one time.
The girl who could get me to wear most of her gear was the winner.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
Maybe I'm mis-reading between the lines, but it sounds like a sexual encounter is the intent. Dressing up with someone else and sexual/fetish kind of implies something behind closed doors. And the OP is new here, unaware of the rules and culture of this forum.
Ive been with a gg who loved it when I dressed and a gay male who also loved it when I dressed but never with another cd. The gg was a girlfriend I had on the side during my first marriage as was the guy. They were pretty close to the same time and my only regret was it didn't happen together....
Personally I'm not sure I could do that again although I have no regrets over either. Both were great experience but I knew both very well before revealing my cd habits. Trust is very challenging for me especially in regards to dressing fem. I suppose I could again but it would really have to be the right situation.
No, but - with the right partner - it would be a blast.
One word answer here for me.....YES. veronnie2
No not yet as the wife is still alive, but one day it will happen and then I will know what it is like.
I've dressed with a couple of local crossdressers but there was nothing sexual about it.... I have this over riding issue with being faithful to the person im married to.. lol.
It seems with all the members on here who would like to get together with other crossdressers that it should be easier to meet and connect. Maybe we need a match making service or have a convention in each state.
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