Hi all,
I went to see a friend at the weekend, and ended up telling him the truth about me. He took it well and although we had a long and frank chat about my situation, our friendship is no perhaps a bit stronger for it.
Also, just recently, my doctor started to set the wheels in motion for me to see a gender specialist at the clinic in Leeds.
So what's the problem you ask? It's that I'm realising that transitioning isn't anymore something that I think I would like (but could live without), it's more that it's something I think I need. I think about it everyday, and my mood is getting lower all the time. I'm desperately sad because I have a wonderful girlfriend (who knows) and I'm scared of losing her. I love my job and I worry about that too. It's like any chance of me having a normal happy life is disappearing before my eyes. Perhaps if I transition I'll be happy with who I am, but without my soulmate, would I be happy? If I could I'd just be a regular guy and be with her, marry her, raise a family. But I'm not and I never will be, I can't be that person for her, and it breaks my heart.
Ultimately it feels like the choice has been taken away from me. I feel like whichever road I take, I'll be mourning the life that I gave up.
And yes, I am a glass half empty kind of girl! Sorry for the self pity, I just need to vent and see if any of you can help me make sense of it all.
Rachel