I guess it's been over a month since my wife and I had the talk. At the time she said she didn't want to see it or talk about about it. Well we have discussed things many times and she goes out to play so I can play which is nice. At the beginning she would text me about 20 minutes she would be home. The last two times it has been about 5 minutes. Of course I have been still downstairs dressed. So the first time I go up and get changed and go to bed. Last night I start doing that and she says I got you something. No it wasn't something fem it was just doughnuts. So I'm sitting at the kitchen table with her dressed with fake nails painted red , make up and jewelry and 5-1/2 inch heels and short skirt with a nice zerbra top. She seems polite in her words but is critical. I think the first thing she says you make an ugly girl. I would spot you right away out there. then she says your blue eye make up is too much. In my defense I was playing and expiermenting and trying something new and was not expecting this situation. Then she says,oh you like caddy jewelry.I had on some nice fake diamond crystal dangling earings and some stretch diamond rings on, it was four rings. Some might be offended by the conversation but i did take it in stride as positive first step in that she invited me in while dressed. I might not like what she said but I chose to take it as constructive critism and I know deep down it will take a many more encounters to get use to seeing me made up. I don't push but letting her choose when to see me this way. She did not have a disgusted face at all, which was a plus. She has seen pictures and even made suggestions on which to use on another site.She helped me pick out 3 new wigs too. It is all her choice when to participate. So after the beating up I give her a kiss with my lipstick on and say goodnight as she is on her computer and I go up and clean up and put my babydoll nightgown on and go to bed. Not the best of steps but progress.
Originally Posted by Kathy4ever
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