so I am very much straight. in fact, part of the reason i like to dress up is because i think i could be pretty if i were a girl. occasionally when i see a guy who can pull off looking like a girl really well, i almost become flirty!
i dont come across other people who cross dress in person very often. but i think it would be so fun to have a friend who was just as into it as i was!
do you girls find yourself becoming attracted to another?
Yeah, actually, that's also been pretty recurring for me. Is it a sexual attraction? Perhaps. I'd say that it's an admiration of beauty more than anything else.
I don't know about the sexual part but I would believe it would be fun to have a male friend to dress with, almost like having all the male friends on this site.
YES. I DO!!!! I have seen MANY that I find ATTRACTIVE!!!
A quick pop over to the pics section in guy mode proves I am turned in by cd's.
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Stephanie
Not in a literal way. There are any number of members here who, in my estimation are genuinely pretty, even beautiful by any standard. And we're programmed, male and female, to respond to beauty. but that's where it ends. I see lots of attractive people in real life too...some of them are my friends. That doesn't meant I'm sexually drawn to them. Its part of maturity to recognize the difference between finding someone's appearance attractive and "desiring" them.
I agree, and to add to it. When I was much younger happened to end up at a few nude beaches.Originally Posted by kimdl93
Great place to find out that 99% of the population looks better with at least some clothing on.
And if you dress to the 9's even a guy can appear to be an attractive woman.
Clothing and make up can do a lot to enhance sex appeal doesn't matter what's tucked or not tucked if what your eyes see is in your mind attractive. Once the clothing comes off, your mind might want to say, Oh or OMG that's a dude, cute but no sale.
I like girls; That said, I like to dress up like a girl. Now I am smart enough to realizes
that I will never be as pretty as most girls. But just dressing like they do lets me feel like
a girl even for a few moments. I see any average girl walking down the street, and I get
to wondering.... Just what are they thinking of????
Some of the members here can appear so natural dressed as a girl, only their mothers
know for sure what they are. I admire them, I could only wish I could look as good as
they do. But when you have the "Body" to look good, by all means use it.
Rader
I'm a man in a dress. A big masculine lug of a man. I don't think I could be attractive to anyone physically, or find another person that looks like me sexually or physically attractive. But I think I could be best friends with another CD like me because we could talk about things that I can't even express to my wife--because as understanding as she is, she can't yet understand what I feel. It would be nice to have a kindred spirit to hang out with and have some "girl" time. I would be attracted on a friendship level to a fellow CD in that situation.
Sure I am, for the right person. But that's not any different than my attraction to any other groups of person...
I am attracted to some CDs. I am attracted to some men. And I am attracted to some women.
So, I guess I could become attracted to the right person of any type, just as long as they were my type.
Of course, it does help if that person likes to wear high heels! (:
"She ain't waiting 'til she gets older, her feet are makin' tracks in the winter snow.
She got a rainbow that touches her shoulder, she be headed where the thunder rolls."
-Van Halen, "Secrets"
I have been attracted to several CDs and female impersonators over the years- even dated a few(not the campy drag queens, but the beautiful REAL looking one) I do not consider myself attractive in drag or en femme. I have had a few folks though that found me attractive due to my voice. That is a start!
One of my best friends, who is married and has two daughters, finds me very attractive. He knows this side of me, and is rather fascinated about my transgender side.....sometimes a bit more than I expected.
not if "another" is a guy. Regardless of his state of dress. That's kind of one of the basics of being straight.
It is hard not to find someone that presents as absolutely gorgeous, attractive.
I let a guy kiss me goodnight very passionately, once.
He looked prettier than I and the other girls just called us lezzies.
I then gave the other girls a good kiss goodnight so as they didn't miss out.
I was not going to miss out.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
Yes. Some of you girls look HOT!
Last edited by Kelly Smith; 03-13-2013 at 11:34 PM.
Oh, I'm plenty straight, Jenni. That hasn't stopped me from finding the occasional extremely fem trans, attractive. I don't have to have sex with every woman I find attractive. Why should it be any different with trans?
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Funny, I've found myself quite attracted to some of the better CDs!!
A little anecdote: I'm a member of a few of the Flickr groups. Last week, I was using my iPhone at work and happened to switch to the Flickr app, which was on the last picture I had looked at: very - no, totally passable CD standing in the bathroom doorway dressed in a silky cami and knickers, looking over her shoulder with the "CFM" eyes. A fellow who was with me happened to see it and said something to the effect that he would "nail her senseless". Thus far, I haven't had the heart to tell him the truth.....
Last edited by MissJoanne; 03-16-2013 at 06:02 PM.
I consider myself to be a very straight, woman loving man who loves to crossdress, I have never been attracted to men and I love the female form, but yes on this site there are many of our friends who look every bit a woman, they dress in the most gorgeous outfits and have the most exquisite make up and they look stunning and gorgeous and yes I love to admire them and enjoy how they look
I am not attracted in a sexual way at all, but I admire the girls greatly to be able to look like they do and I am happy to give comments along those lines
That describes it very well I think. An appreciation of feminine beauty, like admiring a lovely painting
Some people are too wrapped up in what's between the legs! If a totally hetrosexual manly guy had two people in front of him:
1) Very pretty crossdresser in every way looking like a beautiful women.
2) A very big and butch women, short hair, muscles and looks and dresses like a man.
Who would he find attractive? Remembering at this point he doesn't know what the plumbing's might be!
As the average hetrosexual man is attracted to the female form he would pick the crossdresser everytime, that doesn't make him gay!! We are not talking about if he would have sex etc just about basic attraction.
If your not comfortable with that, then stop trying to look like a women.
I see some that I find very attractive but I'm not attracted to anyone.
Definitely attracted to pretty. Sometimes forget a lot of people here are male they're so gorgeous.
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Traci Melissa Knight
To thine own self be true
When the student is ready, the teacher will appear
Very well put and I will add that some people are "straight" until they aren't!That describes it very well I think. An appreciation of feminine beauty, like admiring a lovely painting
Some people are too wrapped up in what's between the legs! If a totally hetrosexual manly guy had two people in front of him:
1) Very pretty crossdresser in every way looking like a beautiful women.
2) A very big and butch women, short hair, muscles and looks and dresses like a man.
Who would he find attractive? Remembering at this point he doesn't know what the plumbing's might be!
As the average hetrosexual man is attracted to the female form he would pick the crossdresser everytime, that doesn't make him gay!! We are not talking about if he would have sex etc just about basic attraction.
If your not comfortable with that, then stop trying to look like a women.
i really htink that the confusion is between attraction and admiration,there are a whole lot of girls here that carry theirselves like a total woman and are attractive enough to be taken as real girls,my self even tho i dress in female clothes i more look like a construction worker in a dress.not to say that there are not some construction workers that are not attractive.there are a few on here that i think carry their selves as total women,i myself thank that confidence is what carries those girls thru.just my humble opinion
Being bisexual I too am very much attracted to other attractive cd's. Not in a personal relationship way though. Because I know once the cloths come off we are still two guys and that just doesnt interest me, sexually yes but personally I can only see being with a female, but only one that can accept this side of me.
Erica
If I saw a lot of the girls here at work or the mall or on the street, I would look at the "pretty woman" without knowing their gender. Lets face it some girls here look really beautiful because they try.
hugs rita
Dressing is not a choice.
Its a passion.
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