So I have a gay friend that knows about my cding and we have gone to a gay club the past two weekends. Last night was horrible because he was telling me that every time I wasn't around people were asking him about me because I don't wear wigs and make up. He basically said in order for me to be more accepted and get friends I have to be one or the other. He said that everyone felt like I was holding back from being what I truely wanted. Which is true because I have tried being fully woman once in high school and I didn't feel comfortable so I just never tried it again. Whatdo y'all think about that?