For grins, I looked at my intro to the site. A clear anguish and guilt laced introduction. Jan 22, 2011. I ended up coming out to my wife just over a month later! I wonder if it was cause and effect. I do believe that joining this site caused me to admit who I was and that I wasn't a freak. And I can state unequivocally, this site and even more so, Mandy, gave me the strength to out myself. A crazy two short years.
Have you looked back?