http://www.tbuckner.com/TRANSVES.HTM
And, apparently, there are seven steps in this process, so don't despair, you can do it too!
This is an example of the nonsense from crossdresserswives.com. Dated 1969, this is cited under current academic research! What strikes me as quite amazing, is the ease with which he generalizes. Most researchers try for objectivity. He interviewed 7, yes, seven, transvestites. And with that level of detailed research he was able to write this "academic" paper. It's really quite a funny read as he is really writing a confirmation of the common belief at the time.
So, according to him, I am not a transvestite. Back to step one, doh!