There is a thread here from a member that is nervous about dressing because of how his wife feels about it.
Some of the replies are along the lines of “just say it’s your girly time this weekend, it’s as easy as that”
No, it’s not as easy as that for that member, it’s frigin hard.
Then there are the members that are trying to build up the courage to go out dressed [sometimes for years] and what do we get? “Just walk out the door, its easy”…….no, it isn’t easy for some. It’s the hardest thing they will ever do in their life.
And then there was a thread about going out dressed when you have young children that might get bullied at school because of it. Members who don’t have children of there own jumped into the discussion and said it was O.K to go out. The funny thing was some of the members that actually had children of there own felt a lot different about it. I wonder why?
I know that all these members mean well. All the members that I have in mind as I type this are nice kind people but there does seem to be a lack of empathy and understanding here sometimes.
Or is it just me? Do I need to get a life or something?
Suzy