Sexy is more about how a person carries themselves rather than what they wear. I've met some very attractive/pleasant looking/downright alluring women, who blew it by opening their mouths and talking. Total bore! I've met other women who are attractive, but, not Victoria Secret models, but, know how to be alluring, interested in their date, dress tastefully, etc and are sexy. There are some young women at one of my local Target stores, who are always falling out of their tops. Sexy? No! Sure, they attract young guys who have raging hormones and are only interested in dating a pair of boobs.