I'm pretty sure she knows about my CDing and within the last month she opened a few packages of mine that were delivered which included dresses and size 12 heels. I told her the dresses were for her but didn't say anything about the shoes. A while back I left some of my eye makeup out and she asked why I had her makeup out. There have been other examples as well.
A week or so after the package debacle she was saying that I should put the canoes (size 12 shoes) on and we could have fun. I just joked it off and she teased me a bit and that was the end of it. She brought it up a few times and I thought for sure we were going to have "the talk." I know she will be cool with it because I KNOW FOR A FACT SHE HAS TO KNOW. In the 9 years we've been married I've been busted with size 12 shoes at least 3 or 4 times. That said I only started buying my own things in the past 3-4 years.
What tips do you have to get this talk started and what advice do you have about everything? I've been CDing since I was about 5 or so but it's gotten more and more serious over the past year or two. She won't feel deceived because she would totally understand why I would hide this from her esp. as I'm extremely masculine and nobody that knows me or met me would ever in a million years think I was even 5% fem.