forgive me I am a very judgemental person - I look and observe evreyone, man, woman, and child and pass judgement on how they look and what they wear - not that I hold it against them, it's just a thing (bad habit) I do. Today I am at my usual morning coffee spot and I observe a very tall lady,natural hair dressed nicely in boots jeans sweater,nails done with thin but very manly features -- and immediately recognize a sister --now it's easy to judge someone by there appearence but as I mulled over her presentation my judgemental observations stopped - after all she looked nice and she was in no way outstanding other than being on the tall side and I have appeared in this same eatablishment enfemm my selfhumm... I wonder er no not me I am beautiful and will not look in the mirror at my judgemental self - I have to back up and say as I sat at my observation post I did notice that no one else seemed to notice = and that was reassuring. --- Is this just a quirk (bad habit) in my personna -- do any others expierence the same ...............................Debra
