In my mind, there is a distinction being made between HOW girly someone is dressed who also happens to wear a beard. I have a beard. I grew it between my original what I thought was a phase of CDing and my more recent "it's a part of life and I LOVE it" time. I like my beard, but since I don't go out fully dressed, I don't feel the need to shave...yet. I totally agree with those who say of course it's ok if someone else does it, and I also totally agree that the world would be more accepting of us if more men dressed in public, whether or not there was a beard. Personally, I'm not going out fully dressed until I shave mine off, but that's a personal choice. On another note, however, I'm sure many who see me from behind think I'm a girl, and that is FINE with me. I wear women's jeans every day, and I have a rather feminine body shape. The jeans accentuate what I've been told by others, and that's that I have a nicely shaped ass. I walk kind of girly as well, and have long hair. I also have natural B-sized breasts, which has garnered strange looks in the health-club locker room, but (thankfully) no harassment or nasty comments. Sometimes, I've even dared (yes, I know it's not a big deal, but it is to me) go out with a very obviously feminine-cut t-shirt. I also sometimes wear a female-style tank top in my yoga classes. In other words, I might anger or frustrate those here who want it to be all or nothing, but I feel showing my feminine side while still presenting as a man is fun.