I was at a club with friends and checking out a cute cute behind in a sweet pasely summer dress. The person turned around and had a flat chest and full beard. In my personal opinion still as cute as a honey bee. However my grrlfriend whom at first liked the behind was aghast at the beard and not only turned off but pissed off at the look. Sometimes I am disapointed that the community I thought would be accepting and toleratant of wide variations of gender expression are so often trying to set rules for others based on their own personal style. What do you think? Is a beard with a dress okay? - Cindy