So I came out to Mrs Edith a few weeks ago. Things were tense for a while afterward. She was hurt that I hid it from her, and she wasn't sure how she felt about it.
Things have improved tremendously now. She's over the shock and feelings of betrayal, and has accepted my need to dress -- but she doesn't feel particularly good about it. She doesn't want to see me dressed, doesn't want to know when I'm doing it. The thought of me in women's clothing gives her a pit in her stomach and kills sexual desire.
That said, she feels frustrated that she can't just fully accept it immediately. She wants to get to the point where it's no big deal, but has a hard time imagining how to get there. She asked me to ask you all about this.
So, dressers and SOs of dressers: how long did it take you/your SO to get comfortable with crossdressing? What were the milestones? Any advice?