First off I have to say that this is the best Forum I have ever been a part of , Love it here, now to the question for all. When I started crossdressing my main goal was to dress as a woman and hopefully blend in with the crowds, Now this did,nt come to me until yesterday while I was sitting in the Walmart parking lot. I started watching people as they were coming in and out of Walmart, especially the ladies. Now this is what I started thinking, most of the ladies wore clothes ranging from PJ's or lounging pants, to dresses, and 99 percent of them were modestly dressed. That's what I wanted when I started Cd'ing, to be modestly dressed and be able to go out and just blend in without drawing a lot of attention to myself. Girls here where I noticed the change, I have visited many sites about crossdressers and seeing the pics of them, instead of dressing modestly and trying to blend, most are wearing the shortest skirts and dresses I have ever seen, and to me if u are dressing that way, u are not trying to blend, you are purposely drawing attention to yourself, and I prob sure if you are not truly passible, most people who see this , will start to talk and point their nasty little fingers. Girls , what I'm trying to say is, why to most men who dress as women, dress as ****ty as they can, knowing it only draws attention to them, because honestly women just don't dress that way, I hope I haven't upset anyone, but this has been bothering me and I just had to vent, My main goal is to be able to dress and one day be passible in public, and to me that means being able to blend in, and enjoy every minute of it, Thanks girls for listening, Bonnie