Going back a several months my wife of over 14 years finally found out about my hobby and it wasn’t a good out come at the time but after a lot of conversations I agreed not to continue as it is something that she will not except at all. So after 4 months it wasn’t possible to hold it back anymore and I have started again.
As most of us know by now we can hold it back but it is impossible to stop, and have know idea why I need to proceed with this hobby, but I have too.
So my question is, do I tell her, I need to do this and risk losing here and my kids as she said if I catch you (doing that thing again “I WILL LEAVE YOU”) or do I do it on the quiet and risk losing her and the kids anyway if she finds out?
Kate