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    Panic Mode!

    So I'm browsing the site today, wife is out all day and the kids are elsewhere in the house. We have a wireless network and some teenagers that live next door, pretty tech savvy. All of a sudden my cursor starts not responding to my touchpad. In fact, it's going wherever it wants! I move it right, it moves back left. Oh CRAP! I thought - it's a mac, and it broadcasts its name on the network (so-andso's MacBook Pro) and someone is screen sharing! I cant figure out quite how, but maybe one of my kids has opened a connection from another computer in the house, they might well know the passwords (we have to change them all the time), or WORSE! It might be the teenagers next door who could have eother hacked the password or asked my kids, who are seeing that I am on Crossdresers.com! Oh Shit! No one else at home would be surfing that site, (certainly not my kids - cant blame it on them...) especially if they saw I was signed in!

    I am DONE! The neighbours kids know my secret! I rapidly try to move the mouse up to sever the wireless connection, but the mouse is now moving REALLY fast and trying to stop me. They won't let me sever the wireless connection. They want me to stay on this page so they can take a screenshot or something. I am on the point of powering down in a frenzy, when I get my cursor to hover for just long enough over the icon to sever the wireless connection. I sit still, stunned. Someone knows. Someone thought it would be funny to screen share my computer and they caught me on a crossdressing forum. Will I have explaining to do to my school age kids, or will I face knowing looks from the neighbours kids? Resigned, I change the wireless password immediately, and I contemplate my fate, and possible explanations I might give (But the damned computer is "My"MacBook Pro" - explain THAT! I am well and truly screwed.

    Just then my son comes around the corner holding up the wireless Razor mouse that is paired to this computer, and he says "Hey Dad, what IS this?" He has been playing with the mouse upstairs! My secret is safe. I need a drink, ladies.
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    Better have a extra drink to to calm the nerves, Glad everything work out. we don't want to see Marina leave us girls, hugs.
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    Make that a double. How terrifying that must have been. It is the burden we pay for the dual worlds we feel we have to be in. I am so happy for you that this had a happy ending.

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    I think it's hilarious! If you all could have seen my face..........
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    lol! Our son hacked into our network with his iphone with an app in 20 seconds.... showed me the password... went out and bought the best 24 character wap2 encrypted wireless router... he said he can still break in but it takes 2 straight weeks... .
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    O my God; I'm surprised your heart is still working. That must have been THE most scary moment for you! Glad it turned out alright in the end.
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    Don't worry about broadcasting the SSID of your computer, if the kids next door really are tech saavy it won't stop them and they will still be able to see it.
    Last edited by Vickie_CDTV; 04-13-2013 at 05:55 PM.

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    Settings security enable firewall, enable installation from App Store only
    Sharing - change computer name it's in bold across the top. Disable remote screen sharing, disable bonjour, airdrop.

    Macs are pretty root kit free, and if someone's did drop the modified stuxnix dylb onto your Mac, you wouldn't see what they were doing.
    If you really wanna know what's going on on your Mac at all times including users and processes you can overlay that on your desktop with geek tool. Choose console log access log and write a quick perl to cat /etc/passwd.
    You can pm me if you want to see examples of my desktop. I would show it here but it's pretty identifying.

    If you really want to secure your wireless, grab free radius, drop it on a nas or nix box, and use WPA enterprise with certificates.

    Edit - forgot, if your Mac is on AD, you also have to change your hostname from directory services.
    Last edited by Jenni Yumiko; 04-13-2013 at 05:58 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennialy View Post
    Choose console log access log and write a quick perl to cat /etc/passwd.
    (Giggles, and bats her eyelashes) "Huh?"


    Thx, though, MK
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    A decade ago (admittedly), I was in the ''puter biz". Now, not so much. Facebook is a security nightmare, which I'm one of give people on earth not "connected".

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    Wow!

    I've only had a couple of those "panic moments" myself.

    Most recently when Facebook started doing this "synced from phone" stuff with your pictures, and it synced a WHOLE PHOTOSHOOT! 30+ pictures all sitting on Facebook

    Thankfully it doesn't actually share the pictures till I ask it too, but it still gave me a good scare!

    Such a relief to realise that you won't be forced into explaining your hobby too early.

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    Thank you for reminding me why I try to avoid wireless computing. I was disappointed when the better mice and trackballs went wireless. WEP wireless security is easy to break with software, as your son demonstrated, Karren. I still prefer wired ethernet: signals that aren't broadcast can't be intercepted.

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    Here, this way is a little cleaner
    Code:
    awk -F":" '{ print "username: " $1 "\t\tuid:" $3 }' /etc/passwd
    Results in:
    username: nobody uid:-2
    username: root uid:0
    username: daemon uid:1
    username: _uucp uid:4
    username: _taskgated uid:13
    username: _networkd uid:24
    username: _installassistant uid:25
    username: _lp uid:26
    username: _postfix uid:27
    username: _scsd uid:31
    username: _ces uid:32
    username: _mcxalr uid:54
    username: _appleevents uid:55
    username: _geod uid:56
    username: _serialnumberd uid:58
    username: _devdocs uid:59
    username: _sandbox uid:60
    username: _mdnsresponder uid:65
    username: _ard uid:67
    username: _www uid:70
    username: _eppc uid:71
    username: _cvs uid:72
    username: _svn uid:73
    username: _mysql uid:74
    username: _sshd uid:75
    username: _qtss uid:76
    username: _cyrus uid:77
    username: _mailman uid:78
    username: _appserver uid:79
    username: _clamav uid:82
    username: _amavisd uid:83
    username: _jabber uid:84
    username: _appowner uid:87
    username: _windowserver uid:88
    username: _spotlight uid:89
    username: _tokend uid:91
    username: _securityagent uid:92
    username: _calendar uid:93
    username: _teamsserver uid:94
    username: _update_sharing uid:95
    username: _installer uid:96
    username: _atsserver uid:97
    username: _ftp uid:98
    username: _unknown uid:99
    username: _softwareupdate uid:200
    username: _coreaudiod uid:202
    username: _screensaver uid:203
    username: _locationd uid:205
    username: _trustevaluationagent uid:208
    username: _timezone uid:210
    username: _lda uid:211
    username: _cvmsroot uid:212
    username: _usbmuxd uid:213
    username: _dovecot uid:214
    username: _dpaudio uid:215
    username: _postgres uid:216
    username: _krbtgt uid:217
    username: _kadmin_admin uid:218
    username: _kadmin_changepw uid:219
    username: _devicemgr uid:220
    username: _webauthserver uid:221
    username: _netbios uid:222
    username: _warmd uid:224
    username: _dovenull uid:227
    username: _netstatistics uid:228
    username: _avbdeviced uid:229
    username: _krb_krbtgt uid:230
    username: _krb_kadmin uid:231
    username: _krb_changepw uid:232
    username: _krb_kerberos uid:233
    username: _krb_anonymous uid:234
    username: _assetcache uid:235

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    Wow that is a very scary thought. Glad to hear it was a false alarm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarinaKirax View Post
    (Giggles, and bats her eyelashes) "Huh?"


    Thx, though, MK
    I know! I am starting to realize just now computer illiterate I am!

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    My router has a feature called MAC address filtering. Every computer has a unique MAC address, which looks something like this: e0469a0401e9. I can give it a list of MAC addresses and say 'don't let anyone on who is not on this list'. I don't know if it is possible to fake a MAC address or not.

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    Safest bet (short of not getting on here) is hardwired into a router with a firewall. Couple that with a personal (software) firewall like BlackICE or Zonealarm. That said, if you have a wireless network you should really secure it and you can Google a bah-zillion ways to do that. Above all else, remember nothing about Facebook is secure. Nothing. Good luck, sweetie.

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    Ok, that was great . I was rolling on the floor laughing out loud. Yeah, that feeling cant be explained, it has to be experienced. A DRINK. I would have need a bottle or atleast a 12 pack after that. Thanks for sharing. I needed that ....
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    Yea, just wait until the FB facial recog software goes viral and 'bots hit this site.... a few cross checks with the web and I'm toast...

    It's only a matter of time I guess....

    For now, I'm going to hold off on getting the crainial implant with DNA encryption... opps wrong century.. y'all ain't suppose to know that one yet...

    Resistance is futile... but I still liked the story...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deedee Skyblue View Post
    My router has a feature called MAC address filtering. Every computer has a unique MAC address, which looks something like this: e0469a0401e9. I can give it a list of MAC addresses and say 'don't let anyone on who is not on this list'. I don't know if it is possible to fake a MAC address or not.

    Deedee
    Yes it is possible fake a Mac address, it is called spoofing. The best thing you can do is be current on your operating system updates and encrypt you the directory where you keep private stuff.

    But then again the best secret is one that never passes the threshold of your lips, and the other one involves degrees of trust. Which is really sad when I think about it. I think we are all rather courageous when I also think about it in the wild west of the internet. :-)

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    this is why it would be smart to have a second computer at home that is NOT CONNECTED in any way all free standing..


    is this even possible these days?


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    Renee I think we are all gonna be toast. Because people like Jenn up there and Karren son gonna have us splattered all over the place. Best get ready for it. LOL. I laughed till I cried reading your comments. Because like Caitlyn. I now know, that I know nothing about the wireless situation. LOL . So Jenn my laptop to the Iphone hotspot at risk. And in English how do I fix it. English......... pretend I know next to nothing. Windows 8 & Iphone 4.
    Last edited by Marcella Camira; 04-14-2013 at 01:01 AM.
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    I named my wireless router FBI SURVEILLANCE VAN to mess with anyone who might see it via wireless....

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    Press "Control and F4 key" at the same time closes the tab or the browser (if you only have one tab open) that you are viewing. That would stop their screenshot capture.
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    Like turning off SSID, MAC address filtering is not effective either (if the person attacking is at all sophisticated.)
    http://www.grc.com/sn/sn-011.pdf
    Only WPA is secure, but only if properly configured and one is using a very long and highly randomized (inconvenient) passphrase.

    One could have an unconnected backup computer, but one would need to spend time patching it if it needs to go online. Connected or not, everyone should have a 2nd (or more) backup computer for redundancy, it can help avoid being offline if the primary computer is down.

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