I hope everyone understands where I'm coming from on this post. If not, my apologies in advance.
As background, I've become pretty outgoing in my CDing over the past two or three years since I found a group of girls to go out with. But not at home. My wife is not at all accepting, and we have a de facto DADT arrangement. Actually it's "Hear no evil, see no evil, speak no evil." I think my CDing kind of creeps her out [my words, not hers].
But the point of this is a reality check for me.
At the Keystone Conference, there were two girls presenting as, I'm not quite sure how to describe it, baby dolls it the only thing I can come up with. They both came out with the rest of us girls to dinner at a mainstream restaurant. The rest of us girls were dressed for the venue but they weren't. Far be it for me to judge, since I was dressed as a guy in a dress with makeup, forms, wig, etc. But without making a value judgement, their presentation was even more unusual than mine.
There's also a young adult at church who dresses semi-androgenously. He presents male, but he seems to have shaved his eye brows and re-drawn them in longer and more feminine. He also paints hit nails occasionally and usually wear a "claw" in his hair. Again, it's hard to make any judgements since my nails were painted today also, but not my fingers. My painted toes were hidden under my socks and shoes.
Anyhow, I have a different perspective now on how my wife may view me.
