So i have a cardiologist consultation this morning to discuss a previous test. Thinking there was no reason for an EKG, I wore Barbs undies under my boy cloths....sure enough when i get there they want to do another EKG (for those that dont know what that is, they put a bunch of stickers and wires to your chest) I asked iff i needed to take my shirt off, thinking i could take my bra and fsmall forms off, no we can just pull your shirt up. Taking a deep breath, i pulled it up and laid back. Verbally she was composed, but she did a couple double takes and then went to work.
So, my cardiolgist and his nurse now know. No fuss, no freaking out, just went with it. It is nice when people are. At least polite and professional.
When i go back in a couple months, peerhaps Barb will go in my place.
All this to say, be who you are, no, not everyone will accept you as a CD or what ever title you prefer, but if we all stay in hidding, we will never gain any acceptance
Barbara