I was invited to play dress up with a famous drag queen at her house today. She has been all over TV lately and I am equal parts excited and nervous. She is gorgeous.. She is a pro. I am an amateur. She is young. I am older. She is very thin. I am just thin/average. I dont know what to do. Please advise.
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Lucky girl!! i think that you look wonderful and i would die for a shape like yours! don't be so hard on yourself...go, keep your head up high and have
the time of your life. since she is a pro, one can probably learn a few tricks of the trade so take notes and don't forget to share them with your friends
If this is a once in a life time, or once this year, why wouldn't you live the experiance
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Oh, enjoy it for all its worth and consider yourself blessed. I would love to have that type of opportunity.
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Maybe hop in your car, take a taxi, run fast...go girl! What are you waiting for!!!!!!!!I dont know what to do. Please advise.
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Don't miss the opportunity.
She has chosen you for a friend and an invite like you describe is not to be missed.
You should not throw caution to the wind however.
She would obviously like to spend time with you showing you her craft and experience.
She may want to encourage you to follow in her footsteps.
Some of her rivals are probably a little too competitive to be friends.
Try and broker a friendship, I do not think you will be disappointed.
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Get your butt over there and have fun. Dont be nervous Im sure she will be glad to answer any questions you may have and give you a few helpful pointers.
Erica
OMG why are you even asking the question? Meeting a drag queen early - well relatively early - in my CDing days was the best thing that ever happened to me. We are still friends and talk regularly. She taught me everything i know about being a girl. Have fun and injoy "going to the Mountain."
XO Bree
Why would you even hesitate. An opportunity of a lifetime. I'd would love it.
When confronted with a scary situation you should bring a friend for support. I'd be happy to join you and be that supportive friend.
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although said in a joking manner, it has a ring of truth to it. You don't say who it is you are meeting, if you have met them before, exactly what "dress up" is (a professional doesn't "play" dress up me thinks there is more to this). Is she wanting to be your drag mother? Did she see you somewhere and think there is potential?Originally Posted by Briana90802
When confronted with a scary situation you should bring a friend for support. I'd be happy to join you and be that supportive friend.
Let someone (anyone close) know where you are going. I would even make arrangements that if you don't contact them by a certain time, they try and contact you. Since I believe there is more to this, think about something. Get medical history and take protection. Don't be pushed into something you don't want to do. Maybe I am over reacting here but if this is an out of the blue thing, I see some red flags. Just be aware.
This advice would be for any meetup not just drag queens but having been associated with and been around queens, often there is an ulterior reason. They just don't take in daughters off the street or without knowing them for awhile.
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I think Lorileah makes a great point that is valid for any situation. BUt still go just be careful like always. It will probably be great fun. I am certainly jealous. Keep us updated as to how it goes.
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Lorileah is totally correct, as she usually is, I never go to a private residence without meeting the person in a very public place, usually more than once.
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I think Lorileah is spot on. Take precaution. I did. All turned out OK but now a days, sheesh, who knows.
The few times I have ever got to visit any one that I consider is far superior to me, or even famous I just was myself and that was the good thing about it.... Also just being myself was the bad thing about it... Lol really most people enjoy someone who is sincere and honest about just being ones self.
Jaylyn
Go, gets some tips, share some fun and make a friend.
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Sounds like it could be a wonderful opportunity but I'd suggest finding out why she wants you to come over and what she has in mind. If you are of like minds, go for it. If not set some ground rules before you agree to come over. If she can't agree to those, don't do it. If it appears that she wants to be taking things in a direction you don't want to go, have an escape strategy in mind.
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Good Advice Ally..
Agreed. If you know this person pretty well, she may just want to mentor you, which would be awesome. Just be clear on the intent of it beforehand.
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Playing dress up sounds like fun. As other have said though, be careful.
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