Just wondered if anyone else has a similar experience...
When I first got interested in womens clothing it was all about the frilly underwear. I would buy knickers, bras, tights and sometimes body's. I loved the way they felt and would wear them to work under my clothes, or take them to work and get changed into them there. I loved suspender belts especially.
But no matter how hard I tried to "keep things civilised", at the end of the day, I would always end up masturbating in them and have to throw them all away and feel like I'd "failed". You know, it felt good whilst I was doing it, but as soon as I'd finished I kind of knew I'd ley myself down. It should have been about more than that.
More recently I've tried to take things more "seriously", wearing the underwear and clothing without any kind of sexual arousal - treating it as a natural thing. And it feels nicer to be serious about it, if you know what I mean - nicer to just wear things without that need to masturbate.
So I wondered - do you lot see both sides of it. The thrill of it - versus the underlying need to wear feminine things? Does it depend on whether you got into it "via" underwear, or "via" outer clothing? Is it even a sexual thing for lots of you?