Ten years ago I came out to my sister. My wife had recently died and I had suffered conjestive heart failure. I was in a very bad place and my only relief was my dressing. A younger sister had become a true crutch for me and I decided to tell her about Donna. Everything went very well and we became a couple of girl friends. We both decided to retire and move South. So I sold my house, paid off close to ten grand in debts that my sister owed and moved to NC. When we got here I bought a house for myself and arranged for a mortgage for sis. Over the years I have become my sisters private bank. When I finally pulled the money plug the first thing I heard was "why don't you go home get into your prom dress and count all your money you pervert". I'm stunned and lost. I thought we were friends, sisters even... She hid her contempt for so long so well.