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    Member VAWyman's Avatar
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    would you date yourself?

    As a man, would you ask your fem self for a date?
    Or as a fem, would you accept a date from your male self?
    Why, or why not?
    What about if they outed themselves as a CD or TG on the 4th date, would you continue the relationship?
    Don't be quick to answer, think about it for a bit.
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    As for me, I think I would ask my fem self for a date, but as a fem I would turn me down. Too much baggage.
    Victoria
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    Swans have more fun! sandra-leigh's Avatar
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    No, my fem side knows my male side is in a relationship

    Besides, my fem side likes women.

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    There was a very similar long running thread about almost the same subject from a year or so ago. In that one I answered "Hell Yes!", because I was already doing that. It was tongue in cheek but also had a lot of truth to it, because just as we are gifted with this unique life style, or whatever you want to call it, we are also burdened by it because since it is not an activity deemed normal by the general public and thus we who are looking are now looking at a very much smaller position of that illusive dating pie of available potential partners.

    So, in answer to your question today, "Hell yes because I am still doing that!"

    Also, I also really like me as a human being and a loving and caring person. I don't look too bad either.
    Last edited by AllieSF; 05-20-2013 at 08:15 PM.

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    I was presuming that a pre-existing relationship was beside the point.
    And mea culpa, I wasn't thinking of G-G relationships. I am sorry if I offended you.
    Victoria
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    Not really, I am only into strong masculine guys..something I am not

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    Baggage! Oh yea more like a cargo container. So no either way for now. I'll work on a drop dead gorgeous cougar look for a while and see what happens.

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    Sure why not?
    Tracii is witty,smart and fun to be around.
    The guy is a smart ass with tons of personality.

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    I would try anything for a dare.
    So probably yes to both scenarios.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    I'm not sure. Maybe I already am?

    Does, "booty call", count as a, "date"?

    Except for her uncanny ability to finish my sentences for me, Sherry doesn't have much to say to me. Or, me to her. A pretty boring date if u ask me.
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I would do more than date me

    I would do more than date me. But a lady never speaks of such things in public.

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    There wouldn't be a 5th date.
    "one day I'll fly away..... leave all this to yesterday"

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    Only if we couldn't find other dates.... like reciprocal pity dates!
    Current Obsession - Breasts and Lingerie!

    .......My Photos

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    I would do more than date myself. I'd rock my world!

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    As a man I'd love to date a woman who was built and looked just like me. If I were a woman I wouldn't date my man self because I'm unemployed now.

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    Great answers, Ladies. Love it!
    Victoria
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    Of course I would! My problem is ''HE'' never shows up!!!
    If you don't like the way I'm livin', you just leave this long haired country girl alone:

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    Not a chance.. I'm into females regardless, so I could not date my male self. And quite frankly, my femme self is not very attractive. Sorry if that seems shallow, but it's the truth.

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    Well, I too am in a relationship, and both of my gendered selves really enjoy the women to whom we are completely committed! Besides, we are both only into women so I'm not sure it'd work so well

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    Ooo this is a tough one. I would only date females in either mode. My crossdressed self would be a lesbian.
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    If I were me, and if me was a he, and if he saw me as she, I would ask me to go out with me. If however, me was a she, and if I saw me as a he, I still like hes, and would only go out with shes, unless maybe I found out that he dressed like a she. Maybe then there would be two mes, both shes, or both hes dressed as shes. By the 4th date, I would not be able to tell me from she.

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    This one's got more issues than TV guide, so not with a 10 foot pole.
    :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by heatherdress View Post
    If I were me, and if me was a he, and if he saw me as she, I would ask me to go out with me. If however, me was a she, and if I saw me as a he, I still like hes, and would only go out with shes, unless maybe I found out that he dressed like a she. Maybe then there would be two mes, both shes, or both hes dressed as shes. By the 4th date, I would not be able to tell me from she.
    That made my head hurt trying to follow that.. No disrespect, just saying lol.

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    Yes. I wish I could find a younger me, but besides that...

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    I don't think we would get along and it would be boring because we would have nothing new to talk about. For physical attraction...maybe, but I think I would probably scare myself away...
    Chickie

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    Yeah.. male me would not mind asking Sarah on a date, oinly thing is that I am not sure Sarah would say yes as male me does not have the most confidence in the world.

    Maybe I would say yes because he knows how to treat me
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