My wife knows about my wearing feminine attire and doesn't hassle me about it. She doesn't necessarily encourage it but she gives me the space to wear pretty much what I want. Although I haven't pushed it any farther than some kinds of clothes I'd say they were drab, you know jean shorts and femme t shirts and toe nail polish no skirts and such although I'd really like to be able to wear a skirt at will. Recently I've been wanting to wear a night gown to sleep in but didn't know how that would go over . So one day we were talking on the phone and I just said I'd like to be able to wear a night gown to sleep in. She wasn't excited about it but said she was not going to make up rules to govern my life with and what I wanted to wear was up to me. So I did! I bought a beautiful Oscar de' Larente peignoir set from serene comfort. Red satin with black lace! Man does it feel nice to sleep in!