I´m surprised by the tone in most of the replies here.
We can´t say crossdressing is related to this or that, or means this or that, for anyone other than ourselves. Something that this forum taught me is that it is different for each of us and it is all ok!
Crossdressing is linked to porn for a lot of people. And then for a lot of people it isn´t.
For a lot of people crossdressing is a part of them that shouldn´t and can´t be abandoned. And for a lot of people it isn´t.
And porn is harmless for a lot of people. But for a lot of people it is something that takes too much of their lives and gets to a point where they are not happy with it. And that definition of happiness, and of what we accept in our lives or not, is, as well, entirely personal.
We shouldn´t be judging others for taking different choices.
Julia, your crossdressing doesn´t necessarily have to go away after the reboot. You say it triggers sexual cues, but as you said that is ok as long as there is another person involved, and many people do involve their partners in their crossdressing. Anyway, at this point, I don´t think you should be worrying about what may or may not happen with your crossdressing. The most important is for you to deal with your porn addiction, and see what happens next. Only you will know if you can still crossdress or not.
And don´t be afraid to get help from a therapist. Quitting anything on your own is very difficult.