i've been having one of those days where i do a lot of thinking, and having a strong desire to come out to family so i can go on with my transition to female. but sometimes i feel in a way like there are two people in me, but i know there are not. for me it's a battle between what society has taught me is okay for 25 years, and what i have known to be wrong for about 22 of them. I prefer to present myself as a female, and yet, sometimes i am content to be male, depending on what I want to do. So besides that sociological aspect of it, there is a bit if an internal struggle as well. i often think to myself, i am a perfectly good looking healthy guy, and there are girls out there that wish they could be a man like me, just as i wish i could be a woman like them. i look at girls thinking how lucky they are, and how they should be living it up and flaunting their femininity, and yet i bet some girls have looked at me thinking i should be doing the same (but masculinity) so sometimes i find myself wondering, shouldn't I just be content with who I am? Do clothes really make a difference in my happiness?
I am content on some level as both male and female, but if I could 24/7 live as female, with no problems, no questioning from others about why, I'm sure I would. This is something I've always thought. It's not a sexual thing for me, I don't get off on being a girl (no disrespect to those who do!) I remember as a child, not ever wanting to be a girls boyfriend, but wanting to be them. wishing i could trade place, or change sex somehow. it's something ingrained so deeply in me that, some days I just want to cry because I'm not being true to myself.
I'm sure this is something we all struggle with on some level, but I still often wonder...why am I not happy just being how I am when I was I was born? >_<
I'm sorry to be so long winded, but I have no one to confide the thoughts to in the real world, and I really needed to vent tonight. Thanks for reading, and lots of love to all of you. You are wonderful people here, and I am happy to have found this place ^-^
p.s. i apologize if any of this is a little incoherent, it's late and I'm tired, and really need to go to sleep, as I work very early tomorrow x_x