For the same reason I can't. Rita I can only hope to teach that level of tolerance to my kids. My daughter has already shown a very i tolerant side of herself at age 12. My son (8) just kind of goes with the flow.
They both know I shave my legs and wear nail polish. My daughter started the polish thing with me but still has some problems with me doing it, especially if her friends see it. At 12 I suppose it is all about your image and how much your parents can embarrass you.
I am so happy for you and hope everything goes even better with your daughter.
Lisa