Like I said they are so many different responses here. I like this thread. I just think being dressed as a woman and being with another crossdresser would be the ultimate. As long as I got to be the girl in the romance
Like I said they are so many different responses here. I like this thread. I just think being dressed as a woman and being with another crossdresser would be the ultimate. As long as I got to be the girl in the romance
Last edited by Jordan; 06-21-2013 at 08:58 AM.
If you are attracted to a man when dressed then you are attracted to men when not dressed.
Stop trying to kid yourself, all you are looking for is an excuse to justify it.
Justify what?Originally Posted by Vicky_Scot
It's not the man that's attracted to, it's the idea that a man (or woman, for that matter) is attracted to the way we present as women.
Uh no, When I am dressed I am attracted to women, some CD/TS people, and once in awhile certain men. I am never attracted to men in guy mode. I don't look at them, I don't think they're cute, I completely ignore them. My feelings for women never go away no matter how I'm dressed. This seems to be common with many trans folk. I think it's the whole "validation" as women psychological bent at work, i.e., dressing as a woman brings out a "female sexuality". In other words, some of us are indeed half-woman in every way mentally, not just crossdressers, but not quite transsexuals.
Well, I personally like boys all the time..being dressed just kicks it into another gear.
Well I have never been attracted to a man when in male mode. Having said that when I am in full female dress I have had several men pay attention to me and on two ocassions have let them make a pass at me. In both cases they knew I was a CD and the relationship went as far as we each wanted. Would I do this in male mode? Absolutely not I enjoy women but when in female dress I feel and present like a woman and thoroughly enjoy the attention.
As my femme self, Veronnica, I must admit I am bi-sexual. I enjoy women so much that I aspire to look like and to act like one in my every day life. With that said, yes, I think about and look at men and they look at me. Yes, I do date men and yes, I do date women either as Ron or as Veronnica. Yes, with GG women, I can be that infamous lesbian. Veronnica
Hello All
This appears to be a very popular thread. I feel I must answer. Anyway, what I have been experiencing as of lately is I believe to lack of intimacy I have seen beautiful transformations and sometimes I become excited of the beauty that these men...........( put on the table) for a lack of a better word. The beauty I see is very intoxicating and while I know they're men an in any other " fashion" I would see them as......well.........Yuk. A man in a 3 piece suit is lame to me but GG's go haywire. Anyway, when a man portrays a beauty that supposedletly belongs to a woman...........then things change for me. I desire the beauty but the realization that a man portrays that beauty somewhat betrays my lust somehow. Am I different in thinking this......?
Sorry........... I'm a little tipsy tonight and I'm sure I'm not making any sense
Then again not all girls are into the same kind of guys and it's counterproductive to assume you'd fit into yet another box.
I'm not interested in guys wearing suits, it does nothing for me so if I were to have questioned myself by only examining my attraction to men wearing suits I wouldn't get an accurate reading.
IMO It's just a bit too easy to look at big, buff dudes and say "nope, not attracted" when you've only examined a small fraction of the population.
fe: "hairy dudes? EW!" Is something that can be said by anyone, gay, straight, male, female and isn't really something to measure by.
I am with Kate on this one. I have been with three guys so far, and it went sort of ok. I tell them my limits, first. Have met one man , who loves to massage my legs, twice now. I have told him my boundries, and he is ok, gentleman widower. However, most men turn me off! I would rather be with a gg.
Please don't claim to know what's in my head. I explored that quite thoroughly during 15 years of BDSM activity and experimentation. I explore what I want and do not need excuses.
Well, if you like boys then you do. If you don't then you don't. However, never underestimate the power of the dress. High on pink fog some times some of us want to be with a guy. I have had my moments of pink fog and played out the "how hot that guy is" but its just talk for me and part of the dressing up.
I know it's the mindset and all but if you can raise the flagpole for men while enfemme then what is the block causing everyone to find them unattractive in male mode?
In my case it was simply that I wasn't allowing myself to truly explore, maybe if some actually give your attractions a closer look things would open up a bit more?
Think about what you're attracted to in him while enfemme, look for the same type of men while in male mode and do an HONEST comparison on how you feel.
Don't use porn though, naked dudes are your call though.
I am attracted to women, and it doesn't change whether I am dressed or not; neither does the type of woman I find attractive change whether I am dressed or not. (Come to think of it, my attraction to women and the type of women I find attractive hasn't changed at all since early puberty.)
Maybe it is because I am an introvert and am wired differently than most people, but I just don't find male attention flattering or desirable (the only man I want to find me attractive is myself.) If there were women who got all excited by seeing me dressed, I would desire their attention, but since that scenario is really just fantasy I don't send much time worrying about it.
Last edited by Vickie_CDTV; 06-22-2013 at 04:31 AM.
not into men at all, i will only notice and date women
You Don't Have To Be Female To Enjoy Being A Woman
I usually think about how to avoid men
Interesting statistics.
Excluding the "don't knows", double posts, and back and forth discussion, so far there are 23 definite "NOs". And there are 34 positive responses, ranging from definite yesses, to 'exciting thought', to 'interesting idea', to 'yes but fantasy only', to 'only when I'm dressed'.
So the tally is:
NO - 40%
Yes, maybe, interesting, when dressed only, fantasy only - 60%
Reine
I always look at the ladies, mostly wishing I was one of them.. at least for a bit..
I do have a tendency toward fanaticizing about an encounter with a guy, but ONLY when dressed.. So OP, you aren't totally alone..
Other than that, I'm lookin' and admiring the ladies..
"If it feels good.. - Wear it"!
It's maddening sometimes how easy it is for me to switch my gender spirit (spirit?) and lauded, expected sexual desires. In my normal life, I lust after women just like any guy. But once transformed into womanhood, it's only men who I find desirable, wishing so much to be with and adored by a man. Such fantasies drive me into a netherworld completely. Thinking I'm some hybrid heterosexual, able to somehow take-in both worlds, both gender identities. But truth be told, I'd choose a life as a woman and those desires in a heartbeat, if only I could.
Last edited by Robyn2006; 06-22-2013 at 08:08 PM.
When lost, alone, or blue I know I can always get through the day, for I've always another shade of lipstick to make things right!
I have to admit I do like men when I am Adrienne......
If you can't wear heels, what's the sense of dressing?......
Definitely all about the girls for me in both male and female mode. I have nothing against being gay, I just love women so much. I love smooth legs, shapely curves, long hair... Though I do/can find other crossdressers and transgender s attractive. I got hit on by a guy once in a club, and I very quickly announced that I was a lesbian. He wouldn't go away, but thankfully a girl I didn't know overheard the conversation and rescued me. I will always have a soft spot in my heart for that girl.
Another time was when a guy was trying to get past me, and he rested his hand on the small of back. Now I see how women can get creeped out by moves like that.
I am bi, (though primarily hetero), so it doesn't change for me. However the feelings for men intensify when I am dressed. I very much want to experience sex with a man when I am en femme, and hope to be able to experience it.
It's interesting. When Sarah emerged last year, she came along with a sexual change. I went from a 99.9% heterosexual to being what I've finally started calling myself "polysexual". I still like women the best, but I'm into some guys and I really like crossdressers and transgenders. It doesn't have anything to do with whether or not I'm dressed.
Dressed or not, I like them both
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Reine,
Thank you for taking your time to level this conversation out,
I looked but did move on.
Quite interesting when looked at logically.
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