This place is like an addiction can't figure out if I am living through others or is it a fantasy? I have been reading others experiences and my own anxiety takes a back seat, I feel normal I guess, the pressure of how I feel take a back seat..for awhile ..
Talking to some really great people on this board helps to understand and then a complete break down .. am I in denial about being in denial???? this throws my mind upside down makes me wonder about my marriage do I love her as my wife or my best girlfriend. My therapist (now ex therapist for wasting my time sitting in her office) says she believes I am a woman sexually. ok .. now how does that work? I have spent time trying to understand everything by talking to some great people here. I don't really want to move along the path as much as I want to understand it and except it but not do anything about it. Of course how I "feel" doesn't go away and I am trying to see how much worse its going to get or how bad it really is. To feel like a woman but to understand your man is very confusing for me. 99 % of the time I am so busy with my business or fam or project that it doesn't feel like anything but another day, but there are moments where I feel I should walk or act different. I can't explain it but its a real feeling.
My wife says she believes I will transition its inevitable ..she is just enjoying me being male till it happens but will not "be" with a woman but will stand by me if that's what I need. Are you kidding me?? thanx for helping me fight .. way to send down the rabbit hole further ..
Then always back to reading about others. Is this just a big pattern is this what its going to be like forever.. if I don't act.. I love my life now I love being who I am, I do not want to change anything.. yes its scary to think about what would happen if I acted and yes I am chicken to do it but that's cause I have my own reasons to be chicken.. I know it doesn't solve any of my life's problems other than the feelings of odd I have. Then back to the sexuality wtf is that about..
Yeah nothing makes sense per say but yet it does just like my ramblings ... ooo and Melissa I wish I was making this crap up please tell me I am so I can move along and laugh at myself one day ... and ty to the few that have given great advice ...
Just another day and tomorrow will be another one also though they are never the same ..shaking my head in confusion