I managed to pop over to visit my mother for a couple of days, with my last visit 11 months ago.
My mother knows that I am transgender but I do not talk about that with her much. She does not know or understand how much I have transitioned already.
This visit I had bright red nail polish, hair down to the tops of my breasts, earrings, and a couple of tank tops that accented the existence of my medium A-cup boobs. And I carried my kimono purse (designed to be worn with one) everywhere.
My mother did not mention anything about the obvious changes. What she did nag me about was over having dyed my hair brown a few months ago. Everyone has been positive about my new color, except my SO, and now my mother. They say that the compliments I have been getting are false flattery, and that they are the only people who have been willing to tell the truth. I have had too many good things said about my hair to think it has all been flattery.
Not a word over the obvious changes, not a concern about the boobs: just concern about hair dye.