For those of us out and full time, unless we pass real damn well, we sometimes hear rude comments or people laugh. Most of us go through our daily lives without much incident.
Take note though that when it is some rude-ass, is it ever they type of person you would want ANYthing to do with regardless of your gender?
It isn't often someone in a suit or someone clean cut and well-spoken. No, in my experience, it is usually some trashy looking person with poorly done tattoos and a wife beater shirt who sounds like "mahhh yeee yar glahhh barrr rahhh" with a "Larry the cable guy" accent.
OK in fairness, sometimes it is the original wanksters.
Is it worth it to worry what the dregs of society think?
Maybe you don't enjoy the sting of being reminded you don't pass. Well now think of this - What about young, pretty women who have to be around such trash? Imagine how nerve racking it is for them.