How much does your SO know about your dressing?

[Polka Dot]

So, Gurls.. Tell me. How much does your SO know about your femme self and your dressing? I am interested in if it's a completely hidden thing, or she knows everything about your girly self. Mayhaps categories would help:

1. Do they know you dress?

2. Have they seen you dress?

3. Do they know your femme persona?

4. Have you gone out together when dressed?

5. Have you shopped together for Gurl clothes?

6. Have they seen / watched your porn collection?

I look forward to hearing your answers to these questions!

[ArleneRaquel]

My SO is a male, but I will still jump in.
1.Yes of course
2.Yes many times
3.Of course
4.No, not even as boy & boy
5. Yes, but he didn't shop for himself
6.I do not own a porn collection
Now insofar as my late wife who died in 2002....

1.Not as far as I know
2.No
3.No
4.No
5.I went out with here many times as she shopped and I looked on. I shoped alone for female item many times during our marriage
6.No porn-ever

I do not beleive that my wife ever knew, even though I took part in many Gay Pride Parades and activities thru out our marraige usually when she was visiting her family in Missouri, or Mississippi. I never cheated on my wife in any way. I did not have my first same gender experience until I was 58 years old or thereabouts. I began taking part in the Gay Parade in around 1974/75 as "Maureen Fleming."

[Polka Dot]

Thanks for the heads-up, Arlene. I changed the pronouns to be gender-inclusive.

[ArleneRaquel]

Thank you darlin. Hugs, Kisses, and Best Wishes.

[jaye_cd]

Yes x6.

I'm not sure that would indicate she knows everything about my femme side, but it is quite a bit.

Caveat to #6: It's either straight stuff, girl on girl, or hentai, all of which she has purchased under the guise of "ours"

[Cheryl T]

Yes to the first 5 and NO to #6 as there isn't one.

[Ellie52]

ok here goes

1) yes
2)yes
3) yes she chose it
4)not yet but aiming too in the future
5) yes on many occasions
6) whats Corn got to do with it - we dont play those sort of games....


Ellie

[SusieB]

1. No
2. No
3. No
4. No
5. No but I often accompany her when buying for herself. She says I have good taste in ladies clothes and horrible taste in mens.
6. No don't have one

[Beth Wilde]

My partner is also a male CD'er so.......

1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Yes
4) Yes
5) Hell Yes!!
6) Don't have or need any, I own a fertile and slightly twisted imagination

[Teddie]

1. Do they know you dress? Yes. And, she takes an active role in it.

2. Have they seen you dress? Yes.

3. Do they know your femme persona? Yes.

4. Have you gone out together when dressed? Yes.

5. Have you shopped together for Gurl clothes? Many times.

6. Have they seen / watched your porn collection? Don't know what this has to do with it, but don't have a collection.

[Khaleesi81]

1. Yes
2. Yes
3. I don't have a femme persona, I'm the same in either mode.
4. No.
5. Yes.
6. Nope, I don't have a porn collection.

[sara_also]

I would have to say yes to all except #6.
Really don't have a collection like that.

[Jolene Robertson]

1. YES
2. YES
3. YES
4. YES
5. YES
6. Don't have one, Don't need it.

[Sometimes Steffi]

Yes, no, no, no, no, don't have one.

[Jana]

1. Yes
2-6. No

What about you?

[Toni in nz]

1 yes
2 yes
3 no
4 no
5 a big yes we love shopping for gurl clothes
6 no don't really have 1

[Madeline80]

1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes
4. Once, sort of
5. Hell yes
6. I don't have any, so we watch hers

[noeleena]

Hi,

Dressing has a different meaning for myself. every one knows what i dress in so one to five is they all know. = family & others. & our groups,

6 , brings up an interesting detail , as it pertains to males . what has it to do with dressing or cross dressing. as the women i work with on our womans forum would say why do men need this aspect in thier life marrage & relastionships, what part can it play for a sound marrage its very distructive its a put down to women it undermines a female takes away from her what her husband should be giveing to her, iv not heard from any woman that this aspect fostered a trust that should be there from the begining sad to say it has wrecked many marrages, & love has been placed wrongly out side of what a marrage is about, or should be.

I would be more than disapointed had i marred a male who went this way , his love would not be true to me, fact is as a female i would be devistated,

...noeleena...

[Dana3]

1. Do they know you dress? She knows that I'm a crossdresser

2. Have they seen you dress? No

3. Do they know your femme persona? No, not sure that I have one, although one of the on-line personality tests says I'm 78% female orientated

4. Have you gone out together when dressed? No

5. Have you shopped together for Gurl clothes? No, I wish!

6. Have they seen / watched your porn collection? Don't have one!

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Dot, First off welcome to our forum when you are here you are home.
My wife knows all about my crossdressing and has seen me dressed it's a DA-DT kind of thing.
I have bought clothes when we were shopping together .
I don't go out dressed and I don't need porn

[Laura912]

Yes to 1-5. Now why do you assume that all CDers have a porn collection? The majority of the answers to 6, including mine, have been no. Perhaps your assumption is not valid.

[Connie D50]

Ok here goes
yes
yes
yes
yes
yes
no

[kimdl93]

1-2 yes,
3-I don't have a female persona
4-not together...yet
5-yes
6-I have no porn collection

[TeresaCD]

Yes to every one but
6 - don't go there, try to stay well away.

[stephNE]

1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes
4. Yes
5. Yes
6. No, don't have one.
Interesting so many of us have similar answers.