I'm into crossdressers and yet I am a crossdresser. Does anyone else feel this way or know someone who does?
I'm into crossdressers and yet I am a crossdresser. Does anyone else feel this way or know someone who does?
Sure.
It happens.
From what I saw at my first Tgirl Saturday at hamburger Mary's, its fairly common. /chuckle of course anecdotal evidence is no evidence at all, but there were lots of ladies hooking up. I suspect a lot of times, a CD looks female so the attraction is possible, when it comes to the plumbing, I can only assume playing with male bits allows further immersion in feeling feminine. Pls understand I'm saying what makes sense to me without any real knowledge on the subject.
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Rita
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only as friends for me...
paula
I dunno - or care - what's "normal". It is, however, quite common.
Hi,
From what i have heard from other dresser's & trans yes , there is an attraction , why because most males wireing is by sight what turns a guy on , much of my life we were taught males see it wont it, so yes its common .
Now for us its a bit different yet theres quite a few who when we talked or others i know said ...... hey thats a hunky guy i wont him so do women see it in the same way, i cant answer for others here because its not an issue we have talked about& i dought they will. so ill say yes in some ways women see a nice guy & would & i know some who do its into bed .....thoughts here , there are other details that turn us on as well. ask any woman her feelings on the matter , youll get different answers,
Now dont get me wrong i have seen some lovely men i think they look pretty neat, , the ? am i interested from my posts else where answer is no im not one bit though thats myself, other reasons ....as to the no.
Now ill turn this around would a guy wont to be my friend let alone a bed mate, simple answer is no way, though i am surprised that i have been asked for a friendship. remember those who asked me have never seen myself face to face, only my pic, & what i have writen them, how do i say it nicely, being female does not allways bring every thing at birth, so i dont lead men on. i know they would be very disaponited . For me its very imbarrising so i keep men at a distance, okay said enough.
...noeleena...
I believe that anytime you're attracted to someone...it's normal - whether that someone is a crossdresser, gay, bi, straight, female or any of these. I see ladies on this site every day that I bet I would be extremely attracted to in person. I don't question why I'm responding in this way, I just accept it.
Hmmm, I would think this forum would be the last place to bring up the concept of normal. The spectrums of gender from masculine to feminine, of sexuality from straight to gay are so wide that they accomodate everyone, yet to label one individual normal and another not beggars the question of what is normal.
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Hi FP, It's having friends with a common interest .
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I sure hope it is normal. I have no physical attraction to genetic males what so ever but I am very physically and sexually attracted to ts and tg girls and cders. Hopefully Im not the only one who feels this way. But as far as a relationship goes I would only want to be with a gg or ts.
Erica
Who cares what "people" define as "normal"! Who sets the boundaries of "normal" anyway?
My partner and I are both crossdressers and gay males.... We can be: Girlfriend and Girlfriend, Boyfriend and Boyfriend, Boyfriend and Girlfriend or Girlfriend and Boyfriend! We consider all of that normal, it makes us happy and we aren't hurting anyone!
It seems to be quite common. As a crossdresser you have to work harder at your presentation than a GG. If you look in our picture gallery the girls are dressing extra feminine and many of them are very convincing. Are you attracted to the feminine image?
Now imagine that hot crossdresser with their clothes off and see how you feel. Or look for the girl/boy thread where you can see CDers as guys and after their transformation.
Yes I think so, both have like interests, both are crossdressers.
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and beauty will follow.
I am attracted to some CD's on here but that is really just when they are dressed. I love the way they look in dress. Maybe the way they their lipstick looks or the way they wear their clothes and heels. I am talking the way they look dressed only. Now with that said if I saw them in guy mode I may not be any attracted to them. There has been very few guys that I knew that I would even think in my head about any other desire to proceed farther than friendship with. I have a weakness for the sexy looking girls, blonde headed, short skirts,red lips and tall heels and when they are made up yes I am attracted to them. Take outside looks away then the personality, trust, interests, education, manners and many other factors come into play as to my attraction to anyone. I know deep down that most CDs are male underneath. I just imagine them as a GG and if they are what I would look for in a relationship, if I were in the market for a partner. I am happily married now to a beautiful gal, not just on the outside but also on the inside.
I also love wearing and feeling women's clothing and makeup on me. I love walking and imitating a female and I get aroused by it. In my old age I enjoy it so why not have a good time while participating in the activity, but yes I do find some cd's on here very attractive. They make very beautiful women and really pull off the passing. Hope this makes some sense and not rambled to much.
I'm quite fortunate to have a number of CD girlfriends. I love them all and find many of them quite attractive. We are of the same ilk! I'm also quite well aware of who they are under the lingerie. That sort of keeps things on an easy platonic level so things don't get all sticky. LOL.
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Yes, I am very attracted to other crossdressers. Even the pornography I view is mostly centered around cd's but it doesn't have to be any kind of porn to make me excited, just an attractive gurl.
This is a good subject I see quite a few CDs attracted to other CDs and guys when dressed I guess it's just personal preference for me I am attracted only to my GG partner and when dressed still only my partner or myself lol. I am still in the closet though and I am not to sure if my partner would feel the same attraction
Normal or not, there are a lot of cross-dressers (many are members here
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I think is a lot more common than cross-dressers attracted to men
If CD's turn u on, FemP, it's "normal".
So far, it's been "normal" for me not to be.
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Feels normal to me, but then I'm bi anyway.
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oh hell yeah!
cherish attraction wherever it may roam
what is normal nowadays? I much prefer abnormal, although it is normal to be attracted to other cders.
Yes! I definitely am. But only if she is a she, not a he posing as she, you see? 'Cause a rose is a rose by any other name, smells and acts the same. But a he who would pose to be a rose, gives himself away, eventually. Not my cup of tea.Originally Posted by FemPossible
Me being me can only make love with a GIRL, whether T or GG. But never a male, posing as girl, no matter how prettily.
Gender ID originates deep, isn't a surface thing. He is he if simply crossdressing but not M2F TG. I only make love with GG's or TG's like me i.e. those who are feminine transgendered from within, not having fun or pretending.
As a matter of fact if she is a she, no matter the body embodied? When you make love the truth will come out. Cause it's all about Honesty, not usury.
Might seem confusing but it's really not. I take sexuality seriously. And if you're TG lezzie, you will know immediately. The difference is night and day.
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