So I have several times recently been about to say that my husband doesn't dress very often. Then suddenly it occurs to me that he wears panties every day. Every. Day.
So why don't panties come to mind when I think of dressing?
I have been thinking about it and I thought my realization might be helpful for some who are trying to help their SOs be more comfortable. The reason that the panties don't even register with me is because it is totally normalized. They just happen every day with no fanfare or todo. In the beginning I noticed and they were something to "be ok about" but when day after day they continues to be totally normal they just stopped being anything but just normal.
So the first part of my post is to share that and suggest that for some it may be helpful to just take small things and just let them be normal. Boring even. See if that helps.
The second part of my post are the questions.
For SOs, I wondered which things in relation to your SOs dressing or transition have become so normal that you don't even think about them any more?
For CDs and TSs who have SOs, are there things that your SO was originally uncomfortable with that they now don't worry about at all?